The news papers are reporting that the suicide of model Babajee has again been reopened. Her lover Karan Kakkar had got an clean chit earlier, but now is again on the scanner. Babajee, it must be remembered had committed suicide and had written a note saying that Karan had emotionally killed her.
Babajee was a lonely women and her career as a model was also failing when she ran into Karan Kakkar. Love is a unique emotion that has been understood and written about by poets and writers. Even psychologists have added their own interpretations. Freud reduced it a hidden
Love is an emotional need and I have seen that single women, spinsters and divorcees are more in the need of this emotional prop. Hence the chance that these women will give themselves up to a man is that much more than a contented and happily married woman. This is one of the peculiarities of
But the bottom line is that playing with the emotions of a shattered woman is bad. Man is not an animal in the accepted sense as he has a higher intellect and as such a man is expected to use his reason and judgement.There have been many cases where men have slept with emotionally shattered women and then left them resulting in suicide by the woman. Perhaps social workers and psychologists may like a look at this aspect of a woman’s mental make up, Babajee was one such case , but there are tens on the scanner.